My boyfriend wants to baptize our future children, I don't. Help?

i feel its the children's choice. tell him since you cant come to an agreement let them decide. and I'm sure if the child died young it wouldn't go to hell. God wont punish a child who doesn't even know. Raise them the best you can and let them decide on their own what they want. they have the freedom to choose what they want to be and do. that is control.